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DRIVE SAFE



The questions most persons ask is "what is driving you?" In other words "what is your push?" 

Anyways, I am not asking that today because I guess you have heard enough of that.
WHERE IS YOUR DESTINATION?
Now that is my question.

As a young person, where are you going? That thing that is driving or pushing you, where is it taking you?

The drive may seem right but the destination may be wrong.

You can drive a brand new car and still end up in a forest if you don't know where you're going.

Most people will tell you to "keep moving" but I'll tell you to pause and check the destination. 

That habit you are involved in just because of today's worries and challenges, where will it land you?

That decision you are making, have you considered that it could mar you for life?

Yes, peer pressure is real but in a short while those peers would not be part of your life anymore.

THAT THING THAT IS DRIVING OR PUSHING YOU, WHERE IS THE DESTINATION?

Push yourself but make sure the destination is where you and your generation will be proud of.

Love.
Victoria Noah.
Your adolescent and growth advocate.

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