CELEBRATING THE GIRL CHILD

While celebrating the girl child, let's not forget to address the challenges girls face and promote girls’ empowerment and human rights.

The girl child over time has faced tons of negligence and violence due to some misconceptions that they are less than the male children. These has inscribed low self worth in most of them which has not had a my positive impact on the society. To the extent of making them entrenched in laws and policies in some comunities

Some societies violate girls’ rights in so many ways like not seeing quality education as a necessity for the girl child, having more females in low level jobs both at home and the cooperate world, laws that restrict women from inheriting family properties and the likes.

According to the United Nations, 1 in 3 women worldwide have experienced physical or sexual violence. This shouldn't be so...

Solutions will be discussed on our next post.

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Effective Grooming and Parenting

... Continued from last post. G ood parenting is intentional just as every other endeavours that are result oriented. You need to fold up your sleeves, be determined and intentional about grooming your children to in turn become good adults and parents. Help them build their self confidence, teach them self-love, self-care, self-control, integrity, honesty and how to maintain important relationships. Relationships are the most essential currency on this planet, teach them not to mess with the right ones. Teach them to face the world with competence. One of the ways to achieve this is by intentionally making it a point to find something worth praising your children for every day. Criticize them but criticism should never be more than the compliments they receive from you, it should not even measure up. Never compare your child in a belittling way with anyone, it kills their self confidence and sometimes the will to fight for a better them. Take time to address bad beha...

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Effective communication does not just happen, especially when it has to do with an older person communicating with younger minds. It is no longer news that the level of parent-child communication dwindles as children transit to adulthood (the period called adolescence) if intentional measures are not taken. It is thus important to note that Parent-child communication is best when built from childhood into adolescence else it will be harder breaking the walls they tend to build while growing. WHY THE BIG DEAL ABOUT PARENT-CHILD COMMUNICATION ESPECIALLY DURING ADOLESCENCE? In addition to what we know about Adolescence; it is that period they build their self image, root for acceptance among peers and adults, form life values and make decisions that may have massive influence on their adult lives. With all that adolescence entails, you can only imagine how challenging it may be for someone who is not prepared for such changes. These changes bring about increased flare for auton...

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